How do I get my dad to stop hurting me?

Okay..my dad does this thing its called ‘smooth, rough’. Its wear you run your palm down the front of your face, which is smooth. Then he runs it UP my face, which is rough. Do you get it? Anyways, he does that to me all the time and he knows it hurts me. I’ve done it to him before, but he’s a lot stronger than me, so he does it harder. I hurts so bad! I’ve told him to stop, but he doesn’t freaking listen. I tell him it hurts, and it makes me cry..but he still doesn’t listen to me. How do I get him to stop?

Answer #1

Fathers love teasing their daughters… sometimes it feels sadistic but its usually a way of expressing affection. Your dad is a big kid… lol. Tell him to smarten up and as justmee says, fight fire with fire. Your dad will stop… but he probably enjoys getting a reaction out of you too.

Answer #2

if it is hurting you and there is absolutely no point to it then it is abuse

Answer #3

yea dude my dad used to tickle me to hard. he was playing aroun with me but hes just strong and he tickles to hard. if I was you I would like pinch the crap out him when he does it. fin somethign the he dont like and when he does it to you then do whatever bothers him back

Answer #4

he is most likely playing, Fathers usually don’t understand that a daughter is different that a son. Dads and sons usually play rough, its not abuse, just fun. Just tell him that you don’t like being rough. I’m sure he will understand.

Answer #5

Pull away? Does he think he’s doing it for fun or does he do it as a punishment. If you can pull away and back up, go for it.

Answer #6

Fight fire with fire. You have told him it hurts and asked him to stop with no results so its time to try a different tactic. Make up your own “game” called “nutty knees” and play it with him. When he trys to play his game, you swiftly and firmly introduce one of your knees to his crotch and laugh as though you think it is funny. When he tells you not to do that again, you have already learned from his example what your reaction should be. You might innocently ask your dad what it means when people say:”One good turn deserves another” at some point before he decides to play his game again, then when you introduce your new game you can remind him of that explanation. :)

Answer #7

I had my moments with my father to where he wouldn’t listen to me either. Maybe you could walk away from him if he starts touching you like that again or do something inappropriate see how he likes it. Maybe that’ll get him to stop! I’m sure if you make something up and do something inappropriate, then he’ll get the picture. If that doesn’t work, have your mother talk sense into him.

Answer #8

he does it for fun.

Answer #9

maybe you just need to get a sence of humor?

Answer #10

agreeing with justmee

Answer #11

he’s not abusing me…

Answer #12

listen you should tell a friend a counsler or your mom. he has no right to hurt you and you are way better than that. if you rhink that that is something that may be an issue then tell the police. they are there to help you not hurt you, trust me it has happened to me before to. do not let him hurt you. you are way to good to be going through that. best of luck

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