Help! What do I do? He's dating someone!

So I saw this amazing band last Friday night. My mouth was open the whole time, I couldn’t believe what I was seeing. I formed a crush on the drummer that night. I told my friend Julie that I thought he was sooo cute and that he looked like Elijah Wood. She was like, “ really, you think so?? that’s my boyfriend!” but they weren’t talking or anything…he didn’t even look at her or pay her any attention what so ever. They looked as if they were complete strangers.

So as determined as I was to get to know this guy (I could just feel there was something there) I messaged him on myspace saying “So you’re Julies boyfriend? Shes a pretty close friend of mine! The show on friday was really good, you guys are amazing. We should all get together sometime especially since the weather is getting better.”

he responded saying “well i am Julie’s friend..and a boy…are they calling those boyfriends these days?” then he said something about when his band is playing again..and he said “yeah we really should, it is great to be outside. lets go on a picnic. ill bring the checkered quilt.” we kept talking for a little bit and then i asked for his AIM. for the past 4 days we talk atleast 5 hours EVERY night. he’s started the conversation twice!! last night, and they day before that. i told him i was going jacket shopping last night and when i came back from away he said “did ya find anything?!” and i told him my dream to spend a night in a field this summer and drink red wine..and he said WE should do that! he said that sounds amazing. and he told me about how he loves sleeping bags and how its fun to make out in one. so i was like we should go sleeping bag shopping! and he was like yes! and we both love this singer named Ryan Adams and he said to me something like how much more he likes me now sincei love ryan adams also. he also said

“lets run away to colorado and live in the wild and sleep underneath the stars everynight.”

but yeah.. i mean i have never been more myself with ANYONE. we flirt all the time and talk about hanging out..and he lives A MILE AWAY..IF THAT. we have the best conversations.

we have the exact two favorite movies and the same band and the same song by the band(The Beatles)

i just cant express how amazing it is to just be going on for hours about everything we are thinking about.

but anyways, we were talking last night and i sort of thought that when he told me he

and julie werent boyfriend and girlfriend that they werent romantically connected what

so ever.

but i asked him last night “are you and julie dating?”

he responded “yes”

and then he said “hahahah”

i was sooo sad.

and he was like “im not a very good ‘dater’”

he said that he is really doubtful of himself.

then we talked for awhile about how we START TO LIKE PEOPLE WAY TOO

QUICKLY…. i kind of had a feelinghe was talking about me.

he laughs at everything i say and i know he loves talking and listening to me.

WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?! PLEASE GIVE ME ALOT OF ADVICE, I NEED IT BADLY.