im freaking out. bad. I was reading about stds and I think I might have. I have intercoarse friday october 31. I had a cold a il bit before the next day I was sweating bad and now I have toncilitous and I had a fever 2 days ago to were my whole body ached and my throat killed, also im a bit soar down there"" it looks a lil bit bruised. my partner said he knows he is clean . im scarred to go get checked out for stds and because im young to. I dont know if I have it. does anyone know by my symtoms
It just sounds like you have step throat. If you're sore 'down there' then it could be because he was being too rough...since you're having sex, you should be getting a yearly at an OBGYN not only to keep from getting stds, but to help you stay healthy 'down there' with other serious issues. And if you're on BC, you should already be getting checked out, so just make an appt and ask to get a full screening. They won't think you're nasty, they'll think that you're responsible for checking up on yourself. You're having sex, it's an adult mature thing, so be mature and go to the doctors.
O and for the record...You CAN get pregnant even if he 'can't' ejaculate. There is this thing called pre-cum that he can't control and you can't even tell it happens...you CAN get stds even with condoms, that's why you should truly know your partner before having sex and get tested together. If they honestly care about you, they'll be all for it. AND there are still chances of getting pregnant even on BC, another reason you should still use a condom when on the pill (it will protect you from SOME stds and from an unwanted pregnancy).
sillygirl006...there are stds you can get even if the condom stays intact and is used right...a few are... Genital warts...crabs...herpes...with these, it doesnt matter if the condom is there or not...they are transferred by CONTACT, not by fluids.
Yes, it is a very small chance to get pregnant while on the pill, but it happens. That's why I mentioned it's safer to just use a condom as a back up while on the pill (to make chances even slimmer). And I know that you can still get pregnant using both...that's how I conceived, by surprise, my beautiful baby.
And I also have had strep enough in my life to know you DON'T always get a fever...It's happened to me, I didn't always develop one since I sometimes caught it early and got it treated.
you CAN get std's even with condoms
...only if the condom breaks, slips off, or is used wrong.
AND there are still chances of getting pregnant even on BC
...even if you're on both birth control and using a condom, there is a very small chance of pregnancy.
it just sounds like you have strep throat ...strep throat also requires that you have a temperature. trust me, I've had it enough in my life to know.
If you do not want your parents to know, you could go to a free clinic. I think that you should tell your parents. I understand that it will probably be a painful discussion, but this is something your parents need to know. You do not need to wait. It is possible that your life could be in danger.
ooo well if it broke then shouldnt you be worried about getting pregnant?? because some of the stuff you said earlier were signs of gettin pregnant don't know forsure but , im just sayin
lmao so if he said he was clean and your on birth control why would you people use a condom in the first place? and how ould you get a std if he cant cum? very confusin stuff right here
but do they the symtoms sound like that one std? like I was sick beofore and it was right after that I fet like crap and my partner says he is fine
you still can get an STD j a s, wow such a dumass>> THE BEST THING IS TO GET CHEAKED OUT. ASAP
You cant trust someone with words get him to give you a doctors note saying hes fine
im on birth control now and for some reason he can never ejactulate
but im only 15 and I dont want my parents to find out they willflip
If you can't handle the consequences, you shouldn't be having sex.
but the doctors can they call your parents???
but im 15 if your under 16 they can
he usually does but it broke.
Syphilis
