What does he want me to do when he puts my hand on his stuff?

ok…a few nights ago I had freehouse, and I invtied some friends over and my boyfriend… that night we’d been together 3 weeks…and for the first time I let him finger me…everything was fine…but truth is I only ever let guys do stuff to me…and I never do stuff to guys…my boyfriend put my hand on his d*ck several times…but what the hell does he expect me to do!? I HAD NO IDEA WHAT TO DO so anybody out there PLEASE help, cause next time I dont want things to go wrong..!

Answer #1

first you are going to have to relax if you start doing it and you think about it to much your going to be tease and you to be able to relax and make movements smoothly…just place your hand around it and gently stroke…and so on just listen to his movement and gestures…and before doing this you could tell him it’s a first time you have…he’ll understand as him to kinda guide you you know…you just have to be open with him be able to talk to him about anything.

Answer #2

He fingered you… you are more of a recieveing type of person i gather, rather than a giving person in sexual terms. The fact he put your hand on his dik was because he was in the mood… and probably thought you were if you had allowed him to play with you. So you cannot really blame him for his actions although he could’ve asked if you wanted to. What he probably expected was for you to give him a handjb and if you dunno how to do that it is just pulling the foreskin up and down, he may even guide your hand to his satisfaction.

Take risks… have a go! Do new things, I know its a pain that you have to satisfy him especially as they take longer to org*sm but take in turns… or do it at the same time. Explore!

Look for handy tips on the internet on how to use your tongue and different uses of lubes whilst pleasuring.

Answer #3

he was expecting a handjob

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