would downsizing one make more room for the other one to be stretched?
What sizes are your ears and what size do you want? I'm not totally smart in the gaugeing department, but I think you should downsize one before increasing the other. Gaugeing both holes in each ear might be stretching it. (haha, get it.. stretching it?) :D
I had my ears gauged 3 times on each side. First ones were 0's seconds were 2's and thirds were 4's. Just talk to your piercer cause for me they had to pierce my ears higher and further apart in order to fit them all correctly and comfortably.
lol, i love bad puns. but i have 7/16s in my first ones, and 2s in the second. idk how big im gonna gauge the first one, but im going to a 1/2 inch next, and i dont have a lot of ear space lol.
it might be best to let your second one down size that way there's less of a chance of either holes ripping. :)