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Dear Kimo, Men and women’s brains are wired differently; men do think about sex more than women but women think about sex too usually in a different ways though. We go way back to the beginning and men’s desire started with wanting to have the strongest offspring (children) They chose a woman who looked healthy and strong. The woman held out for a man she felt was the best of the pack; strong leader, well build and…imagine this smelled good to her. This is call (pheromones). Today we are much the same but not as short sighted. Just like most things overtime they change. We still carry this primative feeling but being more evolved we realized that sex feels good and is so very important to a happy relationship. People use sex to sooth a lot of needs they have and along the way they forgot that it is a special bond between 2 loving people who want to be committed to each other. Sex before marriage is very controversial and some religions forbid it. But not everyone who loves each other and wants to get married are compatable sexually. Just like not everyone likes the same things at the same time…so could this hurt a marriage? It could…could you learn to compromise…perhaps. Divorce rate is 50% and climbing a lot has to do with people who are too young when they marry or did not get to know their partner well enough before marriage. So sex is a very important part of the human nature and you must learn to control your urges. learn between love and lust. In the mean time get to know your own body so you can share what you do desire with him/her when the time comes to commit. Take a lot of time to get to know your partner before giving up your body to this person it is something you can’t take back…there are no do overs here. Sue…good luck