I f*cking hate my grandmother she is a b*tch I dont know how to handle it she hurts my feelings everyday and I cry everynight because of it how do I handle this without being a baby and crying?
ok I dont think that "Most grandmothers are caring and gentle people..", I'm really sorry but its stupid, old people are just people like you and me. They CAN be mean trust me...I work with an 89 years old woman, I take care of her 40 hrs a week and she drives me crazy sometimes...she lies to my boss, the srceams at me...she calls me names and I really do my best to be nice to her because its my job and I think shes kind of pathetic being all alone, her family doesnt want anything to do with her.
So I wha I do is, I don't allow what she does to hurt me, I see her as a child or somebody with brain damage (lol) . If your grandmother hurts you, its because you love her and you care about what she thinks, otherwise you wouldnt mind so much.
Have you tried talking to her? Or to your parents? If nothing works, when she insults you just smile and nod, that will eventually hurt HER. Good luck!
That's pretty sad! But I know deep down you don't really hate her or you wouldn't be asking for help. Talk to her calmly and let her know how she hurts your feelings. you will be surprised of the outcome...but you do need to forgive her. it sounds like you have a lot built up on the inside. maybe try writing her a letter...but wait to give it to her. you may want to change a few things on the final draft! just be honest and not hurtful back. and always love her no matter what, that way you are not in the wrong for anything. I've always heard the phrase..Kill em with Kindness. be nice to her no matter what she does to her and she will get the message of how mean she is really soon. also re-evaluate yourself. there is no way you could possibly be totaly innocent in the situation.
well okay I really dont HATE her but im adopted and she thinks that I should have just not came into her life. and she doesnt believe that people should take in other peoples kids. so its kinda like my fault for being here and she just doesnt like me like she will give my other "siblings" money and stuff for christmas and their birthdays and stuff but not me and she always makes funn of me and calls me names and I dont think thats right it wasnt my fault I was taken in by her son but she is making it seem that way it hurts so bad I just want her to love me.
Why is she mean to you? Have you concidered her feelings? Maybe something is making her upset so she's taking it out on you. Most grandmothers are caring and gentle people.. so it surprises me that you would go far enough to call her insulting names. What exactly does she do to you? You need to talk to another trusted adult like your mom or dad or siblings. Have you tried actually TALKING to your grandma? Find out why she's treating you this way so you can solve it.
wow...it sounds like a case for Dr. Phil. maybe you should try to bond with her in some way or another. she may find out that she actually likes you. im really sorry that this is going on...but I commend your adoptive parents. I think that it's sooo cool. I would love to be able to do that someday. I hope you two can work it out.
What I think you should do is Try to love her more than anyone else for a while and see what she does. if that doesn't work I dont know to say but don't commit suicide. Please!
Hey take youre own advice people are as*holes.Why does it mater w/ she thinks.Yah it probley hurts. but why should you let her dicate how you feel?
WOW!!! What does she do to you?
WOW!!! What does she do to you?