is it okay to cry after letting people infulence your decision?

Its always okay to cry. i’m a person that usually does thngs by thinking about other people. you can let people influence you but make sure you do things for u, you’ll be happier. i’m working on that.

its just im the girl who hates to cry and when she does its like a ocean of tears that keep me up all night crying

its just im the girl who hates to cry and when she does its like a ocean of tears that keep me up all night crying

Yeah but if that needs to come out, you should let it. i dont let people see me cry. but im sorry that you stay up all night. but you shouldnt hate to cry its something that you do.

its just this 1 guy i love him beyond compare and people are telling me oh you can do better, or hes not good for you, or his exs are wating him back and i hate it bcuz i know he still has feelings for some of them

same here.but when i finished crying i feel better.

Well, you do see the cycle right? If you continue to hold it in, it’s going to be worse when you let it out. Might as well deal with it as it comes (and no, you’re not going to cry forever…). As for this guy. Forgetting the ‘you can do better’ part. When they say he’s not good for you, do they have a valid point? Does he actually cause you harm. And if he has feelings for ‘some of them’ (seriously, the guy has genuine feelings for more than one person?), then maybe you need to let go. Yeah, it sucks, it hurts, etc. But you gotta move on. And quit blaming other people. You make your own decisions. You choose to allow others to influence you. Bottom line is, this is your choice.