Should I do anything for old times sake and get it over with?

I haven’t seen my ex in a year..he moved away to texas for air force training. He came back home for an 18-day leave yesterday. We had been texting here and there while he was away..totally innocent..and we didn’t do it often. But we had planned to see eachother when he came back..and we’re gonna hang out tomm. Well..since him I hadn’t been with another guy..not because of my ex, juss b/c I never got around to talking to anyone. I fantasized abut my ex and the things we used to do while he away..but it was never a thing where I wanted him back..juss the sex lol. I know that it’s gonna get hot tomm when I see him..and I wanna do something [after having this year-long sex drought]. But I’m scared of wanting him back b/c of the very-well missed affection. The onli thing wrong with wanting him back is the fact that it’s pointless–after his leave is up he’s moving to italy for 2 years !!! Should I do anything for old times sake and get it over with, or save myself then potential heartache of falling back in love and not having him ?? Remember, I don’t want him back..but I’m scared to do anything that will bring back those old comfort feelings. :/

Answer #1

yea well..that’s WAY easier said than done. trust me..if I could juss turn it off like a switch..I would’ve cut it off a LOOONG time ago..and knocked the switch off the wall with a hammer to make SURE it couldn’t be cut on again. xD

Answer #2

it gotta be sex stuff involved huh because im a virgin..haha…well I think you should do anything with him because you might regret waiting for him to come to you for 4 years you say because of more love affaction…you should just end the relationship because you will soon want some when he away that long again..haha =]

Answer #3

yea I know that..thats why I asked if it COULD be innocent or not because I know me..and I get emo when I do that..I save myself for people I’m WITH also..I DON’T go out here and have casual sex. that’s why it’s been a year since I’ve done anything..I have plenty respect for myself. it;s juss that I’m comfortable with him BECAUSE he’s my ex [he took my virginity] but I don’t wanna do anything I might regret..esp since I won’t be moving overseas with him. it’s not that he for SURE doesn’t want me back either..it’s juss that it doesn’t even matter because he’ll be in another HEMISPHERE so it would be no point. UGH I don’t know this sucks

Answer #4

if you sleep with him you’ll regret it because you’ll want him back when he obviously doesn’t want you. sex for guys and girls is different. with girls, feelings almost ALWAYS get involved. especially if it’s an ex. guys don’t have that. alright? don’t do it, have some respect for yourself.. wait until you’re in a relationship with someone before you have sex. friends with benefits never works. someone is always going to get hurt. in this case, that would be you.

Answer #5

haha..I don’t !!

Answer #6

ok then..if you say so. =]

Answer #7

I say cut off all ties, emotional and physical. The end.

Answer #8

ok..thats you if you wanna keep being horny for that LOOONG time then..lol

More Like This
Advisor

Sex

Sex education, Intimacy, Relationship advice

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

Alive Masturbator

Adult Toys, Sexual Wellness Products, Men's Health

Advisor

Eternity Tantric Massages

Erotic Massage, Sensual Massage, Tantric Massage

Advisor

toymadonna.com

Sexual Wellness Products, Adult Toys, Vibrators

Advisor

Sex Toy Qpon's, Powered by Ad...

Adult Toys, Coupon Codes, Sexual Wellness

Advisor

Sex Toy Qpon's, Powered by Ad...

Adult Entertainment, Sexual Wellness, Intimate Accessories