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is it a good idea for your kids that are 15 to have babies?
Lets have real talk here everyone! As a little girl we are subcounsciously taught to grow up get a prince, have some kids and a house and a fence and a car or two and live happily ever after. I was once your age, and I thought at the time it would be sooo cute if my boyfriend and I had a baby, and that would tie us together forever. But THANK GOD I had sense enough not to do that. Don't get caught up in the fantasy honey. Be a kid, and stay that way for as long as possible. Live with your parents and enjoy not having to work to pay the bills or risk being homeless. ENJOY having someone take care of you and having nice meals ready for you when you come home from school. ENJOY having friends and fun, and hanging out, because when you get older, and you have to live in the real world, with real people, the very same people that when you GROW up and have kids of your own, you will want to shelter your kids from, you will understand my tangit right now. Life has to much to offer, and opportunities are endless. Learn and be free, go to college, travel, see the world, eat at world renowned restaurants, and date and have fun, because you know what..., unless you are rich, when you have kids that is all over. Kids are a blessing. But do you right now. Your little ones will come later. If you have a job and are out of school, and have a lot of money at 15, then I take back everything I just said, but I don't think you do or you wouldnt be asking. I wish you the best of luck, and I pray that God will fix your thought process if you are thinking of becoming impregnated at the age of 15. Heck, you can't even legally drive yet. Girl, GO TO SCHOOL!
I completely agree with amblessed, most women, like myself, desire children at a young age, but it's best for them and the baby to wait, and you didn't deserve some of the replies you got above... this is an advice site not an insult sire, ever think people ask these questions because they want real answers, stop judging them and try to help, seriously people, this site makes people feel so awul about some stuff, don't answer if you're not going to help, get serious.
15 year olds should even be having sex but if they do get pregnant make them have the kid and plan for someone to adopt it. It is still the parent's responsiblity to take care of their child if they get pregant and that means helping them through the whole thing and making sure the baby is safe and gets a home if not with them.
A Child should never have a Child - they are very unprepared, lose their innocence and future forever altered - Best plan: education, ring, date, marriage, reach financial stability, then baby.
no way you dont have a job no money you cant care for the baby and the dad may not be supportive at a young age
In some ways yes and in some ways no. But, we are only animals, and we cant help our instincts.
Did you ask if it's a good idea if a "KID has a KID?"
Does that sound like a good idea?
what the f*ck is your problem obviously not
what the f*ck NOOO thats hella messed up
