How to get my son to treat me better?

my 11 year old son and I never see eye to eye...I try not to be to hard on him,but
I cant let him get away with the way he treats me(right) I don't hit him or call
mean name well I just dont know what to do

yes you are right your his mama hes not your dad and hes only 11 he shud respect you and do what you say to do and you shudnt go easy on him at all

Put him on time out. I don't care how old he is. Take away his rights to his favorite games.

disapline him he will never show you respect until you show him that you rule over him and that you wont let him treat you like this he needs a WOOPEN THAT DOESNT WARE OFF

I can speak for this one well because I am aproximatly his age. Purhaps you should be exceptionaly nice to him, punishment will only make him angryier. And if you are being too controling that can cause a lot of anger. Just a sugestion!