how can i ask my mom that i wanna go birth control?

Just tell her you’re sexually active. It’s the best way to go. Birth control DOES have other benefits, at least it does for me (though I’m not sexually active). I was put on it by my doctor because my periods weren’t regular. Not only does it help regulate my periods but it makes them shorter. Where they were 6-7 days before, now they’re usually about 3-4. Sometimes as little as 2 days. But It won’t help cramps and stuff. You’d need something different for that.

She’ll probably guess in any case. Best thing is to be honest. You can try and make up a story, but don’t be surprised if she guessing you are sexually active, mothers are really good at telling when their kids are lying.

Otherwise Why not go to a government clinic or planned parenthood and get it for free?

i mean i what i want to say to her im just not sure how to start off the convo. you understand? i was going to tell that im starting 11th grade and i wanted to be safe if in any case that i “was” going to have sex.

what is birth control

Theres that too i usally have heavy periods lasting 6-7 days.

Birth control pills….surely you know what that is? If not, I fear for you.

you can go to a planned parenthood without my mom?

ohh wow. ask your mom………

im 14 and i cant co zi dnt live with her

im 16. look it up online.

i did but i dnt reli understand it

well it can mean different things:

1. shorter periods.
2. most likely unable to get pregnant.

Yes, you can. You should be able to at least as far as I know. I go to a free clinic and get my for free without having to tell anyone

well i talked to my mom, and she was cool with it.