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Will we ever find a child to adopt?

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I am 32, happily married, and had my first child at 19. I have 2 children of my own, 10 and 13, and two others that live with me 14 and 19. We live in South Texas. and my husband and I see many young girls that are pregnant and say they want what is best for their child, that they have thought about adoption, but then keep the child so they won't "embarass" their families by "giving up" the baby. It breaks my heart. My husband and I have tried for 10 years now to have another child. We have prayed for God to bless us with another child, or just leave one on the doorstep (lol). My other children have the love and attention they need, and what material items they want (yes, I know they are "spoiled", lol). Anyone have any advice on how to not think about this every day? I don't necessarily obsess over it, but it runs through my mind every day. I just wonder if we will ever be blessed with another child to love and cherish?