why isn't my life a paradice?

Ty hit on a REAL answer to misery…Volunteering!! Doing for others, can add a dimension to your life you never knew existed. It is one of the few guarentees you’ll get in this life…without hardly trying, a whole new world will open up…

I didn’t believe this when my mother made me volunteer as a teenager, I couldn’t see WHY it would make me different…but it did. It’s in the “doing” and it changes how you see yourself.

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not every one has it good. but the people who brag about a wonderful life are the ones who got it worse than we do. they are the ones that we are jealous of but it is the other way around. we are of them and they are of us. people could have all the money in the world and their life would be just as bad as ours. I grew up wanting to be like the other kids that had it all but then I realized that they are the sme as us. you may think that you have it bad but think of it another way that you have it better than someone else. there are people that don’t have a place to live and a family to take care of them or anything that you have. there are people that wish that they had your life. and asthma I have it too and so does my siblings. so good luck in trying to in trying to take it all in. I hope this helps you realize everything.

Paradise exists in the mind. There are also people out there who have way more miserable lives than you, and they are STILL happy! It’s all in perspective…seeing trials as challanges, being grateful for the good things you have, even if they are small…Avoiding jealousy and envy is a good place to start…you create your own happiness.

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no one’s life can be a paradise. everyone has their own problems and if they pretend that they have an ultra perfect life then they’re just faking it. absolutely everyone has their own problems. I don’t think your life is as bad as it seems. trust me, a lot of people are a lot worse off. try to stop comparing your life to other people. it might help you. good luck dude.

Is this website against profanity? Oh well who cares.. FUCK WHAT EVERYONE THINKS ABOUT YOU! You are human just like everyone else and there are tons of people who are going through the same, if not worse situations than you are. Ask yourself these questions: Am I blind? Am I Deaf? Am I missing any body parts? Catch my drift yet?

These people are still living today because a life is a beautiful thing to have. I grew up with an obesity issue that had me in bed for months! You get over these things when you find yourself. Think about what the future holds for you.. What do you want to do as a career/profession? Do you want a house in the hamptons? Its all about setting goals for yourself and achieving them overtime. You are young and still have life to explore.

Don’t ever give up on yourself. All those kids in school that threw books at you is wrong. Personally, I would have kicked all their asses but people are different. You said “there only a few peoples I met who saw me the same as everyone. maybe if there was more peoples like that. then the world would be a better place.” Those are called friends and they are there to help you get through this tough time you are having. Trust me, there are LOTS of people like this in the world but in school, kids will do anything for laughs, popularity, just for fun, or simply to bully you. If you are not a fighter, try taking self defense classes like Karate, or Judo.

People at your age simply want something new. They want to be popular and will do anything to get there. You can’t let people put you down. Stand up for yourself or simply ignore them. As much as it hurts to hear what they say, just finish school and live life.

I hope this was helpful! If you ever need someone to talk to, add me. I’ll be your cyber buddy from new york city. =D