Why is my life going down like this??

Ok I m just 13 and I feel really depressed right now. At school I m getting paranoid…thinking some people hate me and saying stuff behind my back which I think ain’t true. I can’t catch up on h.w. and I am always forgetting something like a book..that’s no big deal though.

I have a crush on a guy who works in a tattoo studio but now I think the studio’s closing! I know I’m not his girlfriend but I saw him with his girlfriend… and I wanted to burst out crying but at least I didn’t! At school I feel no one trusts me! What can I do for people to trust me more and to listen to me??

I know it s a long whiny question but I d be grateful if you answered it. Please do not tell me to talk to someone about this as I m really uncomfortable talking.

thanks

Answer #1

Dude, you’re young. Your hormones are raging, things all around you are changing. It’s tough being a fresh teenager! But with time, you will get the hang of things.

There will be plenty of boys to have crushes on, plenty of homeworks or books you will forget. It’s totally normal to want to fit in and have everyone like you or worry about what people think about you. I guarantee you’re not the only person feeling this way. Even the most popular kids in school or the celebrities you see on tv every day feel this way at some point in their lives.

The only thing you can do is to continue to be the awesome person that you are. Just because you don’t feel awesome right now, doesn’t mean you aren’t. Remember that. People will like you for who you are. And whoever doesn’t, isn’t worth your time.

If you’re really having a hard time with this, why don’t you try to keep a journal? Whenever you stress out you can write down all your thoughts and fears and worries that only you will know about. I, myself, like to paint, and whenever I feel like I’m gonna rip my hair out, I use art as a way to calm myself and take all my frustrations out. It feels like a ton of bricks are being lifted off of me. Maybe something like this can help you deal with what’s going on in your life right now. Just relax, take a deep breath, you will get through this tough time. Best of luck to you sweetie, I hope you feel better.

Answer #2

Well I’m going to be straight up honest with you, if people are talking about you, the one thing you do is DON’T listen to them. You’re always going to have people in life who are gonna talk about you, but theres nothing we can do about it. Just let them talk while you live you’re life. Don’t let them ruin your life. Plus if the guy you like has a girlfriend, maybe it means you should move on. You;re only 13 years old! You still have A LOT of time for boys and relationships. Don’t cry over just one. You’ll find someone :) You shouldn’t bring yourself down like this, try being happy and looking at the positve things in life :) Maybe that will help you.

Good luck

Answer #3

Try to stay positive, also if you think everyone hates you just be nice to them compliment try and be there friend, or summit. Also I think you need to organise yourself but just chill out a bit. Take your time dont think of it as an endless pile of homework consentrate on one piece at a time. And this crying over the guy in the tattoo shop is not the thing to do,think of how happy he is with his girlfriend and think that your gonna have that one day wiv someone special. So really my advice is to chill out and everything will be fine. beth…x

Answer #4

p.s. I feel like I wanna cry all the time…

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