why doesn't he care??

I am bisexual and I have a boyfriend.. he says he cares about me and doesnt want me being with anyone else but him! so why does he tell me he doesnt care if I makeout or go out with girls when I am going out with him?? just because it is a girl he doesnt care… I dont know how to take that..? cause he wants me all to hiself except if it is a girl. what does that tell you?? cause most guys say I can also be with a girl as long as I can be in the middle.. but my boyfriend just doesnt care at all..

I need some advice on this.. please help!

Answer #1

well… if he doesn’t care if you kiss a girl, but does for a male I think he is telling you the same as those “guys” but in a different way.

talk to him about it.

Answer #2

Because most guys would not feel as threatened by a girl. If you were to go out with another guy and find out you like him better then you would leave your boyfriend for him, but if you go out with a girl and find out you like her better would you leave your boyfriend for her? Most guys think that you wouldn’t because girls can’t give you what a guy can. Therefore, they don’t like to share with guys.

And besides haven’t you heard that girl on girl is something very “exciting” for guys.

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