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Why does everyone act so surprised that I'm bi?

Everyone that I tell that I’m bi is always like “No way!”

Why is this? They tell me I don’t look like a bi -_- bi’s dont have a look. they look like everyone else does in the world.

It kinda makes me sad cause I’ve had people try to change me. Im not changing who I am. Why cant they accpet that?

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Answer #1

Wow that’s crazy but I’ve gone through something similar also. I’m bisexual and people still are shocked when they find out bc “I don’t look like I’m gay”..but I think its really stupid that people say those type of things.. But just keep your head up and don’t let people get you down :) xxx

Answer #2

Lol, I get that all the time, apparently I don’t look like a lesbian (I have yet to figure out what a lesbian looks like…). My bestfriend still refuses to accept it. I’ve kinda accepted that people are just stupid and smallminded…

Answer #3

They are pr0bably secretively jealous..

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