Should I tell parents and friends I'm bi?

…my parents and my other friends that I am bi? I mean I told most of my friends but my family doesnt know. I mean some of my friends mite act different around me if I tell them. and there are a lot of haters in my school. but I hate keeping secrets from them. wt shud I do?

Answer #1

It depends. I’d wait a little while, but not too long, to tell them. You kind of need to be sure about it yourself before telling other people. But, don’t hide it forever. You can’t change who you are, and there’s nothing wrong with being bi. Don’t be ashamed about your sexuality.

Answer #2

Make sure you are bi before you go spreading something you are just curious about. Unless you care about lots of attention I would only tell the people closest to you. It should be more of a trust thing because some people just cannot feel comfortable around you if you tell them that you’re bi.

Answer #3

Keeping it a secret is only hurting you. The people that really care for you will be able to accept you no matter what you choose to do or who you choose to be. The people who can’t accept you, aren’t the people I would want to call my “friend” Good luck and if you need to talk more, funmail me okay/

Answer #4

yep, first make sure this is who you are now, if you really are bi 100% then go ahead and tell you should never feel ashamed or embarassed about your sexuality or about who you really are and what you feel its not something you should feel like you have to hide everyone you know should accept you for who you are true, some of them might not, and it might be hard dealing with people who dont but stay true to yourself dont let anyone try to change your beleifs and dont beleive them if they say its wrong because your not doing anything wrong being bi/gay/straight, ect is all the same thing really you have feelings for someone else whos human, and theres nothing wrong with that!

Answer #5

I would suggest that you avoid telling anyone for a couple of years.

You are going through a lot of hormonal, emotional and mental changes at this point of your life. Sometimes it leads to confusion. Sometimes it lets us think we are something we are not.

You are at an age where experimentation rules your world. Don’t prematurely classify yourself based upon limited experimentation. If you prematurely classify yourself now, it may come back to haunt you in the future.

Sometimes secrets are best kept secret for awhile.

Answer #6

You are only 16, I say that you may wait with announcing it, let’s say, 1-2 years.

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