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Why do I have more trouble working up the nerve?

Okay.. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now. And we have gotten to the point where he has told me that he would like me to try to give him a hand-job. And I know what to do and stuff.. But I’m having a lot of trouble getting confident about it. :( And it’s alittle frustrating seeing as how, I am all for sex.. But I can’t bring myself to try to do simpler stuff. Can anyone help me? :( Give me some ideas on how to work up the nerve to do it? Or something? It would be well appreciated. (ps. I WANT to do it. I WANT to be able to give him pleasure, He’s not pressuring me into anything. :))

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Answer #1

in a way id say just do some pre-handjob foreplay lol aka makeout then when youre heated up a lil bit get in his pants truthfully I was the same way I was nervous about touching him like I might hurt him or I might do it wrong just ask him to tell you how it feels and if youre doing ok best luck who knows maybe it’ll lead to oral ;p lol

Answer #2

just start off slow by kissing and it might turn into more depending on if you are as ready as you say you are

good luck!

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