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Why are people saying that you need Lube...?

A friend had mentioned how she came on this website because she had a problem. So, as I was thinking about how to ask mine, I actually thought of a new one.

Why are people on this website telling people to use Lube?

I’m not conceited, but I know I’m attractive to girls and I would like to think I know how to make a moment very nice when I want to. I’m in my mid-twenties, and have had a pretty fulfilling sexual past and I came out of it clean :D. anyway, out of all the women I have ever been with (ever!) I never had to use lube, at all. Trust me…I could have washed my hands with what was already there. Point being; isn’t that how it always is? Shouldn’t the girl be so turned on that she’s “ready to go”?

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Answer #1

some ladies just don’t produce a lot of natural lubricant.some are,as you said like dripping like a leaky faucet others well,not so much.you may not have yet,but one day you will runn across a woman who is like that and a bottle of KY or Astroglide will come in handy big time =]

Answer #2

Not every girl produces a lot of natural lubricant on their own - no matter how turned on thei are. Also, some women the longer you have sex - the less lubricant they produce so you would need to use lube.

We also recommend lube to younger users who are about to have sex for the first time - just to make sure it doesn’t hurt the girl and to make sure they are properly lubricated. Not every man knows that a woman needs foreplay to be aroused and wet down there - so sometimes lube is neccasary.

Answer #3

Besides those that doesn’t produce a lot of natural lubricant, there will often be plenty of situations where you want to have sex, she wants to have sex, but neither one of you wants to wait around for nature to take its oozy course. Her mind is “Ready to go,” as you say, but her body has not yet caught up. In those situations, a bottle of KY in the nightstand can be very handy.

Answer #4

Not all girls get that wet when they are turned on, people here just recommend it. Sometimes you get wet, sometimes you don’t so it could be useful.

Answer #5

I never needed it.

Answer #6

The only thing I could think of is Spermicidal Lube.

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