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Me and my boiyfriend have been dating for 3 weeks now and I am finding him to become kind of annoying..he always wants to be at my house and always wants all the attention on him...ughh please help me..
That sounds like 1 of 2 things. Either he's insecure and will remain clingy or (the worst) he's starting to be controlling which would lead into an abusive relationship. Tread carefully. If he starts to show more controlling signs then GET OUT. I can't say either way cause I don't know anymore than what you said about him. For your own safety I would suggest googleing signs of an abusive relationship. And be alert. I'm trying to draw me cousin out of one but she's so far under his mind control she can't see it. No one thought it would happen to her. Like I said I don't know which it is but please becareful.
Well I don't know much about him but it seems he still wants to have that beginning relationship, wanna be with each other all the time, thing and your over that. Its only been 3 weeks. Explain to him that you like being around you but you need you own space and time as well. Be gentle about it. Be like let's hang out here at this time. When you need your time just be like baby I got some stuff I need to do so ill see you tomorrow or later.
thankk u...and yea I did tell him that..ik said I love being with you but babe I need some space your always here...and then saturday when I was tlking to he asked if he could c me sunday and I said I don't know because I might go with my dad and he got pissed off like he was like ok w,e I guess not then and I wasl ike sorry I ake plans with FAMILY and he got mad,..he gets mad when I have things to do that dont involve him
Sounds controlling...I know a lot of guys like that and their girl friends always end up moving on. I'm not telling you to do that but don't let him control you.
Good LuCk!
thanks guys...and trust me I dont let him control me AT ALL I just cant stand the reall clingy
I understand that
