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Why am I so insecure, should I really be like this?

I got married in february, of this year, and my husband has changed completely. Making my insecurities take over the best of me..Hes constantly looking at other girls, always telling me how hott this one is or that one is, and NEVER wants to have sex with me… Im currently almost 4 months pregnant, and feel absolutely disgusting…I mean, I had self-esteem problems before, but now its absolutely ridiculous. He is going on deployment for the navy in 7 days for 6 months, missing my entire pregnancy, and gets home the day before my due date…but in reality we all know that NO ONE gives birth on that date… I was a chunky girl before and now I look even bigger..im scared im going to lose him.. You might say that wont happen because he has no one to cheat on me with, but thats not an excuse..before we got married he had a deployment to spain and hired a whore to sleep with him.. thoughts of divorce have been running through my mind non stop… should I save myself the hassle of getting hurt?

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Answer #1

he doesn’t sound like the right role model for your child. you have to think whats best for both of you.

Answer #2

Like the guy above me said, communication is key. If he is cheating on you, and you feel he is ignoring you, you should out of the marriage now. I know you love him but he sould be respecting you and treating you right. Good luck. Try talking it out first and see how it goes

Answer #3

communication is key in any relationship. You need to tell him that it bothers you when his checking other girls out. Tell him about your worries and to help you out. If he truly loves you and cares about you he will try to help. You will soon have a child to think about. Does the child need a father who doesn’t value his wife? Remember your important too!!!

Answer #4

sorry if you get this twice communication is key in any relationship. You need to tell him that it bothers you when his checking other girls out. Tell him about your worries and to help you out. If he truly loves you and cares about you he will try to help. You will soon have a child to think about. Does the child need a father who doesn’t value his wife? Remember your important too!!!

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