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Why am I afraid to be lesbian?

I want to come out so badly but I won’t because my family won’t accept me and they are the ones I need the most right now. im 18 and I havent gotten on my own yet because im at a financial disadvantage. I love women and have a girlfriend of 3 years. I know I want to marry her but im just unsure of myself and who I am. I only like men for sex and when its over I dont even want to look or talk to him. I don’t feel I am bi because I never want to date a man. I only date females. im just confused and if I were to come out I would be the black sheep of my family. do you think I am a lesbian that wishes she wasn’t or that im bi?

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Answer #1

well, t think you are ok and you shud tell dem they are yr family they shud accept you fer who you are and not who they want you to be =] >^-^<

Answer #2

it sounds like your a lesbian but onli you can decide if you are or not . If you think you are and want to come out then I think you should because whether your family like it or not its who you are and its your life to live not theirs :)

Answer #3

hahah its hot=] I say you tell your fam=]

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