What to do when it comes down to sex?

Agreed with ductan1020. She is obviously TOO YOUNG! Sex is NOT a game. It comes with very serious emotional, and physical consequences!

Tell her to just keep calm and not worry to much about what she is doing. All she needs to know is that she gets it in the right place and make sure she uses a condom. She should be very careful. If she wants to have sex make sure she uses protection that is the number one thing. Not just so she doesn’t get pregnant but so she doesn’t catch anything either. There are enough diseases going around as it is.

14?? are yhu out of your mind gal!!! Yhu are far to young to even be considering this!! It is also AGAINST THE LAW TO HAVE SEX UNDER THE AGE OF 16. I cannot stress how important it is to read up on the facts about sex before yhu du it!! yhur question is very upsetting for me as I hate to know girls are having sex so young. once yhu have done it thats it, yhu don’t get yhu innocence back. Most girls at this age certainlly arent even emotionally ready for sex. its something that should be inside a trusted lasting relationship. I know yhu have heard all this before probley but trust me it is sooo easy to du something that yhu will regret for the rest of your life! stay safe and ALWAYs use protection!!!

first of all.. steph, chill…I just say that she waits… really there are a lot of other things she could be thinkin bout…I have heard there are a lot of kids havin sex at even younger ages… but there are also others that wait until their 20s..(no, its not because their ugly)…so I just say she should wait

if she don’t know what to DO then she has NO bissness doing IT