What to do Its still an awkward feelin between us?

Ok so this girl who used to be my best friend we had a big a fight over nothin I aploigized and she said she was tired of me and I didn’t even do anything any way it was a 3 mounths later and now she wants to be my friend again I kinda don’t want to I’m happier without her and havin fun with my other best friends I guess my question is should I forgive her and go back to being friends or should I say no I need help

Answer #1

kk thax people

Answer #2

OK well I’ve had this happen a lot. You have to forgive them but not just go back to being their best friend. Don’t be mad at her it just makes you as bad as her. I would say not to fall for the same tricks as before. Talk to her and tell her its going to take a while to get to be friends again but give her a chance.

Answer #3

Let it go… There’s no point in being mad at her. But it is up to you to decide how much or whether you want to hang out with her or not. You dont have to be friends over night.

Answer #4

Let me just break up the message and point to you what I believe you should do.

this girl who used to be my best friend we had a big a fight over nothin I aploigized and she said she was tired of me and I didn’t even do anything any way

Okay here your saying that you did nothing wrong and the fight was all about nothing. Fighting is something to start with, its nice that you apologized to her but did you take time out to see her side of the argument? What may seem like nothing to you can be a big deal to her. Just to point that out.

3 mounths later and now she wants to be my friend again

This should tell you that she has gotten over the fight and is probably willing to changing herself to improve the friendship you have. This can be a good opportunity to take time out and work out the weak aspects that your friendship has.

I kinda don’t want to I’m happier without her and havin fun with my other best friends

Your not taking her into consideration. Sure your happy without her but what if she changed and can make you even more happier? Remember, she was your best friend and that does have some value to her. If after talking to her and seeing if you to can work out the differences you have and you still can’t manage to be friends with her then alright. I really feel that you should give her one more chance.

Hope this helps.

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