What should I do? Are we still together or what?

I don’t know what is my status now with him..he is a funny happy go lucky person. And always surround by his cool best friends. He kinda careless bout feelings.. All he knows is happy happy happy… And I’m the sensitive one..emo.. I always take things seriously..compared to him..he take it easily. I can say he knows bout me lot..because I’m always seeking him..talk to him if I got probleme.. About everythings of myself.. But… I only know bout him is he is happy2 person..luv hang out with his friends.. I tried to know him..but he didn’t allow~.. Sometimes I can feel that he got problemes..or some thought about me.. But when I asked, he just keep denying..and being happy . Sometimes I see my attitude to see his reaction.. But he just keep silent..what I wanted is that he can express his emotion that time…about me..bout what I’m doing..so I can know what is exactly on his mind. But nowadays, I hard to believe him because he keeps denying bout what is exactly his feeling to me. I mean..its ok if he mad at me..hates of what I’m doing..just let me know. And he just said he is ok with all things that I do..(even hurting him..) all the time is ok??
Then..we just got arguing. And he keep away from me..phone, myspace, ym… (he already delete his photo in ym; which is from my editing)..I was so hurt..& deleted him from myspace..then he set his profile to private so I can’t view)…and he said he had enough for me.. Act so many things happened in our relationship..kinda complicated to explain here..

Answer #1

wow that’s is the longest question I have ever read ;) some guys can be absolutely d-ckheads and dont tell us what’s bothering them, its has to be the stupid “manly macho image” they conjure up…

if he’s giving you the silent treatment, just ring him up and ask him so you know where you stand, why should you be the one who is unhappy and have to walk around him like he’s eggshells !!!

lol deleting him from myspace isint going to help as you will be thinking of him…remember you dont want to have a massive falling out, b/c cyber networking can get nasty, you know how one bad comment can be carrried to lots of listeners :( so just confront him and ask him outright…if he’s playing games tell him to “piss off” :) goodluck

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