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If you have answered or read any of my other questions please forget about them for now I really need help.please it will be very much appreciated !!
I’m 16, for the past 5 years everything has gone wrong (( I cant go in to to much detail )) but my mum and dad split when I was 11, he got a girlfriend 30 years younger then himself (( this girl is younger than my brother who is 22 !! )) she is 21 … My brother got arrested for something he didn’t do. But that’s kind of sorted now. I keep getting really ill, my family are always arguing and I get the blame for everything all of my mates keeps saying I’m probs just thinking there having a go at me when there not … But they are !! Everything seems to be my fault ! I know I don’t help around the house atm but that’s because I’m doing my gcses I need to revise and stuff !! … I miss my ex boyfriend hes the only person who understood me and kept a smile on my face now I always seem to be moody. Hes got another girlfriend and its braking my heart. I’ve been put on sleeping tablets because I cant sleep as I always have things going on in my head ! … I just want to get away from it all !! .. I’ve tried counseling (( I cant spell sorry !! )) but it didn’t help me because I can talk about things but ii hold on to my past I cannot let it go!!! I believe that is my problem because I hold on to everything that has happened with my family and my ex. also my dad took hes new girlfriend on holiday to barbados and when my mum and dad were together we went there as a family it hurt me deeply that he took her there we only went on holiday two times with my dad because he was always working. But I went every year with the rest of my family so it means a lot to me!! My nan had to go to the hospital to get 2 lumps removed (( if you can catch on to what im saying )) we haven’t got the results back of what they were. Im so down, I miss my ex soo much !! … Sometimes I miss my dad but he hurt me loads !! … My mum s ill !! Brothers just a d ** k all the time :( … And my sister well shes ill as well but they all blame everything on me because I just take it. All my family tells me things not to tell the rest of the family I have to keep everybody’s secrets as well as all this going on !! I dont know what to do I cant stop crying im ill atm with a chest infection so im falling behind on school … Is this all because I cant let go of the past and people hurting me ?!?!?! If so how do I let my ex go and let everything that my dad and brother did gooo ?! im sorry this was soo long I just need help thanks for reading ! X
thanks x .. it has helped, I just need to find a way to move on because all my life with family and boys I’ve been hurt and I think thats why I find it hard to move on ! : / im quite close with ym family like I can tell them stuff and I think its time to tell them how ii feel.
thanks x .. it has helped, I just need to find a way to move on because all my life with family and boys I’ve always been hurt and I think thats why I find it hard to move on ! : / im quite close with ym family like I can tell them stuff and I think its time to tell them how ii feel.
Yeah you have to that is the way foward otherwise you will be going backwards if you leave it like this. Yeah I know how it feels because my young life I had similar experience with family as I was always the apparent blamed one. When you tell your family at first it may come as a surprise but in time they will accept it, because at the end of the day if you are unhappy, you cant live like that.
Can you answer my question by the way it would be much appreciated :)
Reading your story it sounds like you have a problem with your past. You have to let it go and move on, your ex boyfriend has moved on. However much it hurts you have to let it go. believe me lingering onto the pain is worse as it will prolong the suffering. You have to speak to your friends about your feelings even if they get tired of it. Trust me its worth it in the long run than keeping it bottled up. About your family that does sound hard, but I understand your mom must need help you should try and help her out and tell her how you feel. I hope I made you feel better.
you need to sit your family down and leave your dads girl friend out of it. they need to know what they are doing wrong in order to fix it. you have done nothing wornd. and as far as letting your ex go its going to take time as much as you want to get over him there is always going to be that place in your heart for him. maybe looking for another guy or taking a break from dating until you get back on your feet with your family will be a good idea, hope all goes well :