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What do I do when my mom wants to move her fiance and his 27 year?

My mom wants to have her Fiance and his 27 year old son to move in with us, I am Unemployed, cant finda job, and have a daughter in which I have to provide a stable home. My mother wants me to GIVE UP my room which I pay rent for and move to my daughters room. I have no where to go and have NEVER met my soon to be stepbrother…is it me or shouldnt my daughter and I be more important??

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Answer #1

1st blood should always come first :)

but and 30 odd years old you should really find your own pad for yourself and daughter

Answer #2

if you are paying rent then she can’t do that.. plus you have an daughter and all…

just try and find a job and get your olwn shyt..but don’t stress over it..

xoxoxoxo Jakala Roche

Answer #3

I agree with u. you have a baby you gotta provide for so she needs to understand that you are not going to give up your room. if she pushes it you might have to consider moving maybe social services can help you out.

Answer #4

Look you need to get a job!…and try and get a place of your own and if you can’t then tell your mom I pay to live here you can’t kick me out!.

Answer #5

Really, it’s her house and she can do whatever she wants.. Do you pay rent for both rooms or just one? If you do, at least you’ll save money.. Your best bet is to find a job so you and your daughter can move out and live on your own. I’m sure you and your daughter are very important to your mother, but she probably wants to live her own life now since you’re older and can support yourself.. Good luck and hope you and your new family get along well. :)

Answer #6

get the biggest room for you and your daughter in the meantime.

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