I really really hate my life :(
-I have no more friends -I have binge eating disorders -I'm overweight -I have so many embarrassing moments in my life -I'm obsessed with a VIDEO GAME D: -I'm not getting very good grades -My dad makes fun of me for eating so much when it's so hard to control -My dad makes fun of me for not getting good grades -My class yells at me for useless reasons, like when I do something accidental -I think I'm getting ruder than I used to -I'm turning into a hypocrite
The things that are my fault are really hard to fix, and I know I can't fix how my dad and my class are being mean to me.
WHAT DO I DO?!?! I'm too scared to kill myself, so now I have to go through hell for the rest of my life, and probably after it, too -_-
Pick up fishing. Read about it, study it, and if you have to walk to a place to or bike, you should be able to find areas around your city, it will get you outdoors which is man points, or women points.
It is a hobby at times boring but you answer a lot of your own questions when you are out in nature with yourself. Use live bait always you'll have a better chance but you can also eat what you catch. My grandmother always said if you keep it you have to clean it, skin it, and eat it.
Cooking is another hobby. If you cook you will have a better appreciation for what you are putting into your body. Anorexic people cook all the time and don't eat, that’s there coping. But knowing how to prepare yourself healthy meals will mean you will have that attractive quality to one day offer to another. Think about that pick up line, I can cook you just about anything you want…
Fishing is you vs. nature and it will help you chillax a little and get away from parents and school. You will learn a skill and will eat good food that you never thought you would touch before. I just got back from Key West and eat a shark for the first time just last week. I didn’t even know the name of it when I say it on my line. But learned it is a Bonnet Head shark and it was tasty, blackened. I filet it and had a restaurant prepare it blackened with a side of veggies and a baked potato. It was a 2 ½ - 3 foot shark and three people could not eat all the food. It was pretty intense and the best meal that we had all week long.
Good luck and keep a positive head. Make someone else around you feel good about themselves tomorrow.
Thumbs up to pinkpearl!! I was thinking the same thing, as I reading the advice posts.
Doing something for someone who's less fortunate for yourself adds a layer of self esteem...if you keep up doing the "good works" more layers are added...you WILL like yourself, again.
One of life's rules: "You can't have what you won't give away"...smile at people, they smile back...be kind to the less fortunate, and kindness will come back to you...give and you receive...
Now...drag yourself away from the video games, and start taking walks...or take your dog to the park...burn up some calories while you practice smiling at people...Honest...do it for a week, and see if you don't like yourself a little more. It'll also get you out of your dad sight..."out of sight, out of mind"...:)
I checked your age...and honey, I'm promising you this...Your "whole life" will not feel like this...teenage years really are the hardest for some of us...you're going to "bloom" in the near future...right now, you might as well prepare for that future. Take a deep breath, put your chin up...and get away from your computer...and go help an old lady shovel her walks or something!!
phrannie
first of all if you believe in that then thats where yo go god wont deny you for killing yourself but think of this "Do you want to throw away what god has given you?" besides I was just like you in 7th no friends, over weight, parents beat me now I have friends and I lost all the weight (still WANT more) All you need to do is BE NICER and look on the bright side of things because then good things will happen to you. Using this method is a form of healing to becoming a better person and then soon enough you'll have a lot of friends AND TRUST me friends are keys to life's greatest mysteries. Study work hard be happy and the rest will fall into place. Good luck. p.s DONT KILL YOUR SELF I've tried that so any times and the only place it will lead to to is a therapy CENTER NOT FUN
tell your dad to shutup, just cause he has no life.. kids at school are mean, and they say stuff just because they have nothing better to do with themselves and they have low self-confidence. don't give ANYONE the power to bring you down, because you're better than that. when your class yells at you for no reason don't be afraid to speak up and tell them to bend it backwards and shove it up their a$$. if you want to lose weight, do it the healthy way and WORK OUT. SWEAT all the sadness out of you, and EAT healthy to bring all the goodness into you. it may be crazy but go in your mirror every day and tell yourself that you're beautiful and that you love yourself, because you ARE and you SHOULD. be STRRRONG!
so in school try to be friendly to people. And stay after school and ask teachers for extra credit stuff. Also try out maybe for a school sport or something so you are at home less making it harder to play video games at home. Do not bring any video games to school.
I know its hard to control binge and sense I dont have binge this might not be so easy but make a diet for when you eat. So stuff your face with veggies it might feel good. Only eat healthy food.
Also maybe talk to a school councler about whats going threw your mind...thats all I got
The best way to help yourself is to get out of the house regularly for a little volunteer job down the street. There are always people who need help. It could be a few hours a week at a senior citizens home... if there's nothing organized, take it on yourself. Old people who live next to grocery stores for example, still need to lift heavy things home... Things like this end up being very enriching. It also takes the focus off you. Gradually you will stop wondering what others think of you, because you'll be the one thinking of others.
counselor, and have you considered church? Church can help create structure in your life, you will meet great people to be friends with, they have lots of activities, and living a god filled life will help boost confidence.
I go to church, but the kids there act just like the kids at school :(
And I said I'm not going to kill myself. I just need some way to make me feel better :(
try to escape from all of it in a book or your video games
Eliminate your problem(s). Whatever is necessary.
