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Unrequited!

I posted a few months ago about a guy who I liked, but I didn’t know how to get him to like me back. Now he loves me!

Physically.

Though I am only 14, and he is 15, and we are BEST friends… We’ve gone all the way. He’s in love with my best friend, and says that it’s all ‘just for fun’(but he feels bad for being shallow ect).

This is fine with me, but there is nothing more I can do to make him like me for real. I love him too much to stop what we’re doing, but I want to break away from him if he won’t lovem efor the person I am…

What can I do to break this obsession-like bond?!

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Answer #1

This is all good advice. It’ll be hard… Very hard… To stay away from him, especially cause everyone I know will think I’m a bitch for just never talking to him again… But it is what I gotta do… I can’t let myself get attached to anyone so deeply again, unless it’s more than what this is now.

Answer #2

A friend of mine kinda stole this from Rick James (R.I.P.) but I know it 2 be true “Sex is a Hell ofa drug”. & Usually I’m all 4 casual sex but in this case I think its wrong bcuz he wants Ur best friend & U 2 R still having sex which means either U havn’t told her he likes her or U havn’t told her that U & he R boning (both R equally wrong)

Answer #3

Sounds like a real nice guy there! Hes only using you for sex, and your in love with him. The only way to break your obsession, is to stay away from him. No contact, no nothing!! The less you see and hear from him the easier it will get, but it will take time!!

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