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do you think im ugly because I do
Some people have a serious problem with self esteem and self confidence so need constant reassurance to make them feel good.
The problem with this is that if 99 people reply and say they look great and one person replies and says they are ugly, they will ignore the 99 others and just react to the response from the 1.
They often do not do this to be 'attention seekers' but that is often how those with good self esteem will interpret what is basically a cry for help.
These people can be helped but only with professional counselling.
I know it can be annoying when these type of questions appear on this site but all I ask is that you perhaps try and see it through their eyes and not make a snap judgement that they are attention seekers.
Many of these individual have grown up with friends and families constantly putting them down, telling they are worthless and ugly until this becomes so ingrained, they just accept it and believe they are worthless and ugly people.
I think this is a very sad situation, however, sympathy is not the answer, politely suggesting that they seek professional help (like those who are real skinny that think they are fat) would be far more constructive advice in such situations.
There is no quick fix and even with professional support, progress can take a long time. After all, many of these people had these thoughts forced into them during their first 10 years or so of the most influencial part of their lives.
Just my opinion based upon managing a homeless hostel where many people felt this way about themselves.
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it surprises me that most pretty girls ask if their ugly. you are really pretty. I used to think I was ugly but one day I just stared at my self for an hour in the mirror and I realized I have characteristics that make me pretty. so I used my make up and hair to emphasize those characteristics and now I think I'm b-e-a-utiful!!! :-)
Nope. Very pretty :} Dont think that, I know that about myself I try, but cant seem to change it It sucks But really your beautiful, theres no reason you should have to think that
Yeh if you thought you wee really ugly I mean deap down inside them why do your make up and hair nice and pose for the camera. ?
my categories are:
-unattractive -normal -nice -pretty -extremely attractive
and you are... "nice"
You think you're ugly? I think you are too then. =D
Get some self confidence- I mean really.
If you thought you were seriously ugly...why have you posted so many pics of yourself???
Aw that's poor self esteem. I think you are very pretty :)
I think you're ugly too. Get some self-confidence..pfft
dont bother answering this seriously
no brit your not ugly at all
