Stuck between a rock and a hard place

Im pregnant and I just found out because I was having periods and not showing or anything, when I did find out shockingly I am 35 weeks and due on march 29th. Ya I was shocked but who wouldnt be everyone in my family was…but now that everyone knows they want me 2 give it up 4 adoption. I think about adoption and I start crying but my family thinks it wud be best. I don’t want to let my family down but I don’t want to lose my baby either so im really stuck and need advice please help if you can…!!!

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Answer #1

it is not your family’s decision as to where the baby goes… it is YOUR baby and YOUR responsibility… you need to really think about this… stop for a moment and put your feelings and yourself aside and only think of this baby… then ask yourself what would be the better for the baby??? if you deicide to keep it make sure that you understand that it will be everything BUT easy… if you decide to give it up for adoption there is now a thing called an open adoption where you can keep track of the baby and keep some type of long distance relationship… and then there is a regular adoption… in the end please just remember to think about this A LOT and that it is YOUR decision… not that of your family… I hope I helped…

Answer #2

Dear shyy1, What is the best for the child. Are you financially able to provide, can you be a good role model, do you have supports, will you still be able to continue in school, get a good job and most importantly are you thinking 100% about the child’s future. Sometimes what we want may not be what is best. Sue…good luck

Answer #3

keep your baby no matter what and also thats what you want so dont listen to anybody else do what you want to do the baby will much happier with you they will get over it dont worry it just takes time!

good luck and hope I helped!! :) :)

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