Staying single and wanting a child?

Okay… so I’ve been doing a lot of serious thinking lately… and Im not sure marriage in general is the right choice for me… Im just not sure if its something I want to do… BUT, being a mother someday is the most important thing in the world to me…

My question is… do you think its okay to be a single mother?

…Im in college right now to become a Spanish Teacher… so I would be working while my child is in school, and I’d be home when they are home… so time wouldnt be an issue. my mother also isnt a fan of marriage…after being in a terribly abusive marriage that could have ended tragicly…she remarried a really great guy. but if she could do it all again, she would’ve been happier as a single mom with children.

I completley agree with her, and also think id be happiest in my life as a single mom with one child…possibly another if I end up meeting my “soul-mate”(that changes my views on marriage), or after my first child has gotten older.

I wouldnt have my baby until I’ve been working in my career for a veryy long time, and had saved up enough money to be financially stable.

Also, I would most likely use a sperm bank.

my question is… what are your thoughts about this?

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Answer #1

I think there’s nothing wrong with being a single mom, besides, it’s YOUR decision, other people can suck it if they don’t like it.

Answer #2

hahaha I actually watched it lastnight with my friends!!! lol, and I read your post today! lol

Answer #3

watch the movie Baby Mama. :]

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