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She has no reason to hate my boyfriend! Is she jelous?

Okay, so I have known my ‘best friend’ since kindergarten. She has always gone through her really mean streaks, and we didnt talk for a while. Well we were doing really good, and I started going out with my current boyfriend, who’ve I’ve known for over 3 years. Well she finds him annoying, stupid, and says he can never shut his mouth. He has always been talkative, energetic, and quirky. That’s what I love about him, but I constintly get told by her that she hates him, and he is an idiot. She once went as far to say “if you marry him, im sooo not coming to your wedding”. It’s so hard to not be friends with her, but I am NOT letting her break us up. We have made it so far and have been going out for almost a year. He has always been extremely kind, no matter what she says to him. What should I do?!??!! It’s bugging me really badly!

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Answer #1

she wasnt really ya friend then…

Answer #2

I told her exactly what you said and her response was “well I want you to know that I dont f/cking care..got that?” ugh…

Answer #3

if she was truly ya friend,she wouldnt be saying stuff like this.you should sit her down and tell her how you dont appreciate her bad mouthing ya boyfriend.tell her you understand that she doesnt like him but her constant complaining about him is agrivating.ironicly,all the things she said she hates about ya boyfriend;sounds like she posses these aspects too.tell her she doesnt have to like him but she needs to respect him because thats your man and you wont tolerate it.if she cant handle your relationship…give her and ultimatum…either keep her comments to her self…or hit the road.disrespecting ya boyfriend is like disrespecting you…

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