I have a reputation as a "chick snatcher". Should I stop?

I had to ask this question again because the last question I posted may be related because I can’t see her not having a boyfriend. The Original question was: I have always lived by the motto ‘If shes worth having then shes worth taking from somebody else’. I know my actions have messed up some relationships but I feel they weren’t strong ones if I could step in between them. Recently the same thing happened to me so should I look at it as a part of life, should I stop going after girls with b/fs, or am I always going to be the guy who breaks up happy homes?

Answer #1

Well around here, going for a taken girl (or boy) is a no-no. This will just lead to some bad issues.

If girls know you do this, they won’t want to hold a relationship because they might feel like they can’t trust you. Would you rather have several short relationships with different girls, or stay in one devoted one??

Life will have down sides. Love is always mysterious. You can’t let something in your past keep you down. Don’t let what happened to you control your love life. If I were in your position, I’d DEFINATELY stop trying to take women who are in relationships. There are plenty of women out there, and a lot of great ones AREN’T in relationships. Maybe the person you were talking about (you know, who did the same thing to you) was trying to get even or made you realize what the other people feel like when you take their girl away. Think about this. Sucks, doesn’t it? Just take it easy!!

I’ve learned numerous lessons from guys. One is that I am going to wait to find a awesome guy that I can keep a steady relationship (and maybe have a future?), instead of finding one that I THINK I love and really don’t. Don’t let your heart fool you.

So I hope this has helped and maybe changed your mind about how you respect women in relationships (?)

Answer #2

I think that if you honestly have feelings for an individual, then yes, go for it-but if they are already dating your friend its better to let it be. If you just like taking women to prove you can, thats not really right either.

Answer #3

well u want to change then u can aand cant noone tell u that u wont or cant and if u like takein girls then that is ur thing i mean u sed they ant happy wit each other relationship so i dont see ne thing wrong wit it and to me u sound like u like and option of women u havet to choose one u cant have them all

good luck

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