ready or not?

Is it bad to have sex at age 13 if you are realy in love with someone and have been with them for a year? I mean does age realy matter if in the end you know you are in love and are READY??

Answer #1

No age doesnt matter but you are far too young to be having sex with anybody.You need to wait and see if the guy is going to be the same when you are 16 or 17 at least, because there are consequences for having sex, you could become pregnant and you are not even old enough to get a job. How would you take care of a baby if you cant get a job to support it? I really think you need to wait but if you dont I wont look down on that. But please think long and hard about what I am telling you.you can email me if you need to talk.lucylou198914@yahoo.com

Answer #2

13 yr old love, is NOT the same as adult love! It feels like love, but theres more to it, than butterflies, love notes, and raging hormones. The earlier you start having sex, the more sexual partners you will have. You arent emotionally, OR physically mature enough to handle sex. Its not your brain talking, its your hormones! 13 year old is still a child…way to young to deal with the responsibility of being sexualy active, not to mention, with the abstinence based education thats being taught in our schools…teens are not educated on protecting themselves…the last thing a 13 year old needs is to find herself pregnant with a raging case of chlamydiya. I personally find it quite disturbing that 13 year olds engage in what clearly should not be for children.

Answer #3

it’s a little young.

Answer #4

No age doesnt matter but you are far too young to be having sex with anybody.You need to wait and see if the guy is going to be the same when you are 16 or 17 at least, because there are consequences for having sex, you could become pregnant and you are not even old enough to get a job. How would you take care of a baby if you cant get a job to support it? I really think you need to wait but if you dont I wont look down on that. But please think long and hard about what I am telling you.you can email me if you need to talk.lucylou198914@yahoo.com

Answer #5

…No, sex at a young age isn’t healthy. You should try to at least wait until your late teens (I.e. 17, 18, 19) when you are thinking more with logic, less with hormones.

Answer #6

the wierd thing is ..I understand what your saying ..im 14 and me and my friends..are all in a thing..were were gonna wait till we are 16 at least…cause at a young age…please dont get offended by this…at a young age its hard to tell whats love..and whats ..the first spark..or maybe it is love its just not as good..as the real thing

wait… till your 16 or so …cause..if you think about ityou say you love him/her ..u guys will be together..forever…whats 3 more years of waiting ? …you will be together..if your not…then im sorry

love,a cutter

Answer #7

no way!!!

your too young your not thinking properly?? like you just turned 13??

no I think you

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