pregnant/miscarriage

what are tips on getting pregnant??? I had a miscarriage about a month ago and I desperately want to try for a baby but dont think I could deal wth the pain of another miscarriage. anyone got any helpful tips??? thanks x

Answer #1

Please think about this. I got pregnant when I was 18. I love my son with all my heart. He is my world but I never got to live the life I expected. I got pregnant in high school so I couldnt have fun with all my friends or even go to prom because I was pregnant. Im sorry to say this, but maybe you miscarried for a reason. Your body is trying to tell you something. You’ll want to be able to go to parties, travel, or just be able to up and leave whenever you want. You can’t do that with a baby. The baby comes first before anything else. People think its fun because you get to play with the babies and buy cute outfits…well its not all fun and games. First of all the pregnancy is torture and does a huge toll on your body. no more perky boobs, flat stomach or cute butt because after that baby comes out you’ll be covered in stretch marks and have a flabby stomach. And do you realize how painful child birth is? Its the most pain youll ever feel and yes youll do it sometime but you dont want it now. And do you have 10k for the first year? because thats on average how much you’ll spend. Are you ready to get absolutely no sleep at night while your baby cries every single night. Trust me, DON”T DO IT! I’ll never ever regret my son, but I wish I couldve done some more things before I got pregnant. Please, take it from somoeon who’s been there and WAIT.

Answer #2

hey, I…one of the better ways to track when you can get pregnant is by your ovulation. if you get pregnant during ovulation it decreases your % of tubal pregnancys…they sell test kits or you can go hear and track it on a calander.. www.thelaboroflove.com/pregnancyplanner… … and to all of the people who answered your questiion…yes 17 is young…but age doesnt define you…if you beleieve you are ready go for it…just bc everyone else is selfish and says that there will b no time 4 you left doesnt mean that your not ready…they make a baby sound dreadful…n there not…just let god take it in his hands…

Answer #3

STOP!! This is one of those things that is telling you.. Think about what your doing!! Your too young.. really, go live life! You have NO idea how much this will effect the rest of your life.. FOREVER! No travel, no money, no time for yourself. there will be no more YOU.. EVER, At the piont you have kids, you better have seen and done it all. If you haven’t, you should think long and hard, ADD UP YOUR MONEY, and if your rich, happy and well traveled, then go for it, if not… stop and think, your involving a new life in yours. All your troubles are double and now you have another life to deal with.. Think about it..Jeff

Answer #4

But before you go and fall pragnent ask yourself if you are ready to have a baby at 17, because you still have your whole life ahead of you.

Answer #5

Nobody can really predict if a pragnancy will be successfull or not. Everybody takes a gamble when they are pragnent. So try to fall pragnent as soon as the doctor says that you are fit to have sex again.

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