Pregnant at 15!?

OMG I just turned 15 in February and I had a boyfriend for 7 months he was my first and like 3 weeks ago he left me for some cheerleader I been feeling really nauseous and missed a few periods ( I didnt think nothing of it) so I told my mom and she took me to the doctors and I was 2 and a half months prego and it is his baby this sucks I am not ready for a baby but I have to own up to my own actions but I am hella scared too tell Anthony my ex that I am pregnant because he has moved on he has a new girlfriend and his parents are so strict they will kill him and disown him so I do not know what to do I do not believe in abortions I think it like murder and I cannot give my own child up for adoption. My mom told me she is here for me and she is mad but she is like so supportive right now and she told me that she is gonna leave it up to me it is my choice. So I don’t know I am going through heIl right now I am scared emotional and I dont want anthony to think that he has to be with me because we are gonna have a kid I don’t know I need some advice how do I tell anthony? Am I considered a slut now?

Answer #1

no you’re not a slut honey.

it’s his child. he deserves to know whether his parents kill him or not. just be straight up. and if he doesn’t like it, too bad. tell him he can either pay child support OR be there like a MAN should for his child & the childs mother!

Answer #2

First, tell him - he needs to know that he has a child coming, whether it be for his support or his knowledge, it doesn’t matter…he has to know. What happens between him and his parents is not your problem.

You are far from being a slut (as a matter of fact, where I’m from, the slut is the one who steals other girls boyfriends). Take care of you and do whatever is necessary to care for your child - that boy needs to take care of his responsibilities, and it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t have a job - he needs to pay child support…make sure he does it.

One more thing…that little “Report abuse” button is very effective when someone here on FunAdvice is giving you a hard time…don’t be afraid to use it.

Answer #3

sammysbabygirl?

It has nothing to do with you. This is between Anthony and this girl here. I know “your his girlfriend blah blah blah” but this is serious stuff. Why would a 15 year old girl, get herself pregnant to gain her boyfriend back? She is obviously scared. Keep out of what isn’t your business.

And, ‘Rockstarr’, we don’t call you sluts on here. Right, Anthony NEEDS to know he has fathered a child. Whether he or his parents like it or not, he NEEDS to know. Sit him down and tell him straight. If he’s a good guy, which by the sounds of it he isn’t, he’ll take good care of you and good care of his baby, like a father should. I’m sure his parents are going to be angry, I’m sure your mother wasn’t too pleased when she found out. But trust me, he needs to know so tell him somehow.

All the best.

Answer #4

I agree with above…

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