I got drunk and had sex, what should I do?

Right Well Last Night I Was At A Party And I Got Completly Off My Head,, I Could Barely Walk! And Me And A Mate (Girl) Went Back 2 A Lads House.. We Wer Sat On The Couch And My Friend Said She Wanted 2 Go Home So It Was Just Me And Him We Ended Up Getting Into Bed And Well.. We Had Unprotected Sex! It Was My First Time As I Was A Virgin,, Now He Didnt Have A Comdom On Or Anything And I don’t Know If He Pulled Out Or Anything! Im Only 14!! And Dont Know What 2 Do,, I Cant Go 2 The Doctors Because My Doctor Is Very Good Friends With My Mum! And Dont I Know What 2 Do,, I Pray 2 God That Im Not Pregnant But If I Am Thats My Life Ruined!,, My Mum Wont Talk 2 me Or Anything! So Please Answer 2 This And Tell Me What I Should Do!!?!?!! Thankyou So Much x

Answer #1

Well, sweetie…you are in the same position millions of other girls have found themselves in…past, present and future…you made a mistake, and now you have to do the “waiting game”.

Look at this as a “learning experience”…nobody ever makes the best decisions when they are drunk…Let the fear you are experiencing now, be your guide for the next time there’s a party…I’m sure if all turns out ok, this time, that you don’t want to have to feel this way again…right?

Positive thoughts from me to you on this…as a parent and a grandparent, I can tell you that your life isn’t ruined regarless of how it turns out…it feels that way, but it simply is NOT so…

Hugs…

granny phrannie

Answer #2

I agree with Mandy, don’t follow the false information :)

Answer #3

Doll - Do NOT listen to him. He does not know what he is talking about. He does not know your cycle so he can not tell you that it was safe to have unprotected sex if you hadn’t had a period lately. Also, even if he didn’t ejaculate, you can still get pregnant from pre-cum. Listen to me and Steph, he has no clue what he is talking about.

Answer #4

It doesn’t matter if he pulled out or not, you could still be pregnant. There’s really nothing you can do right now, if your period doesn’t come then you’ll have to go buy a pregnancy test. …legal drinking ages were set for a reason, and this is exactly why, because people your age cannot handle your alcohol or drink responsibly.

Answer #5

Well if you didn’t have periods recently then its safe too!

WHAT? How do you figure? You don’t even know her cycle so there is no way of even knowing when she would have been fertile.

Answer #6

johnathan - it does not matter if he ejaculated in her or not - precum can still get you pregnant and a man releases that without knowing and before he ejaculates.

Answer #7

You can see your doctor, even though he may be friends of the family, there is always client-patient confidentality. He cannot tell them. What is the legal drinking age where you live? I agree with Johnathan, Stay postive, figure out when the first day of your last cycle was and see if there was a possiablity you were feritle at the time this happened. It would be to soon to tell so I am sorry to say the next couple or weeks may be stressful, and the more stress you bring on to yourself may effect your body, Have you talked to the person you had sex with yet? Did it really happen? or maybe you thought it may have went that far but it did not. I do hope you are not pregnant, but I do hope you have also learned a HUGE lesson.

Answer #8

First ask the person with whome you had sex that did he ejaculate in to your…Well he might be knowing that.Second if he did transfer semen it’s not always possible that you had sex during your fertile period.These are your only two hopes.Always be optimistic.Cheer up and stop worrying.Well if you didn’t have periods recently then its safe too!

Answer #9

Thanx Johnathan x

Answer #10

Kk Mandy x

Answer #11

Lesson Number 1 - Underage people shouldn’t get “completely off their head”. You are underage and have no place drinking, because obviously it makes you make stupid uneducated decisions and makes you act like a skank. You are only 14 years old, use your freaking head! How could you do something to irresponsible and stupid.

Lesson Number 2 - You are either pregnant or your not. You won’t know for a couple more weeks when your period is due. Take a pregnancy test whenever your period is due even if you start bleeding, that does not mean that you are not pregnant. If you are - you have a decision to make Keep It/Adoption/Abortion. You will need your parents help no matter what you decide and you will have to tell them as soon as you know you are pregnant, it’s very important to you and the child’s health that you see a doctor as soon as you know and decide what to do. If your not pregnant - LEARN from this experience. This is why underage girls should not drink. You are vulnerable enough without alcohol and this only made it worse. Use your damn head and act more responsible.

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