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My period is 8-12 days late but I don’t want to say im pregnant just yet. I don’t want to be pregnant at all. I got so many many future plans for life. I know what you thinkin, I shouldve thought about that before right? But its so funny cause I just went for birth control and bought condems and the whole 9 yards and then my period decides it doesn’t feel like comin. It could be hormones. A lot of signs of pregnancy are also signs of the cycle coming, depression, stress or bad nerves or something. I went for a pregnancy test the other day but Walgreens had NONE and niether did Krogers and the CVS Pharmacy was closed so I figured it must not be meant for me to waste my money and it come back negative. Or maybe Im just being denial. What do you think?

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Answer #1

I wouldn’t want to be pregnant again neither in my circumstances but sometimes when faced with the reality of the situation then a lot of good comes from it..whatever plans you made can go on hold..they don’t have to be cast aside..you have a lifetime to fulfil your dreams but for now you have to think that you may be carrying someone else with a lifetime of their own..and that someone else is as special and important as you are and that someone else is capable of giving you more love than you could ever dream of and that someone else needs you to be there for them as they shall be for you..that someone else is a precious gift…I would not be without a single one of my adorable children…and they would not want to be without me too..I eventually was able to have nearly all my dreams come true inspite of the interruption of motherhood and its demands..you will too

Answer #2

For God’s sake get a pregnancy test and use it. It should tell you for sure whether you are pregnant or not. You don’t have to do anything in a hurry, but at least you know what you are facing if you do that.

Make an appt with your doctor, just to chat, whether you are pregnant or not. You can talk about options if you are, or you can get some very easy to use birth control if you aren’t. Did you know that birth control can be as easy as a shot every three months, and you don’t have to even think about it otherwise? The shot doesn’t protect you from STD’s but, it’s better than nothing.

Good luck

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