No pleasure during intercourse?

I have had sex 3 times with my boyfriend and each time I felt nothing. The only feeling was something being inserted. I have only felt pleasure through manual stimulation of the clitoris on my own. I get excited and lubricated normally, so I’m pretty sure I’m not overly lubricated and he is average in size, so that is also not the issue.

Answer #1

no feeling during sex nothing at all, is there anything I can do . its getting me down ?

Answer #2

Agree with qcumbr1’s reply.

Its a myth that all women turn into orgasmic sluts when a guy inserts his penis.

Need I add, a myth started by guys and knowledge that teens get from porno movies. (Which are of course all fake and just characters acting to a script in the same way that any movie actors do; only in this case, with sex thrown in.)

Again, needless to add, practically ALL porn movies are written and directed by guys.

Many women are like you and unfortunately, a lot of them decide to just fake pleasure and orgasms just to please their guy.

Another reason some women do this is the expectations put on them that they are in some way ‘abnormal’ if they dont have pleasure and orgasms from sexual intercourse.

It is very common but something that females often dont like to talk about.

You have asked a question that many women may be thinking.

YOU ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL and your guy needs to take a good % of the responsibility for this problem.

Maybe he needs to try other things like oral and manual stimulation of your clit.

Another related fact is that although a number of women still feel pleasure through sexual intercourse, quite a large % of them will never orgasm this way although they have no problem orgasming through manual or oral stimulation.

Just wanted to put your mind at rest and reassure you that you are perfectly normal.

Maybe get your guy to read up on other foreplay techniques.

Kiasu

Answer #3

Thanks everyone. And yes, I am much older than 13. :)

Answer #4

Well her account will probably be disabled until she provides accurate information.

Answer #5

hisbabygrl - You said, ‘I am much older than 13. ‘ - I thought that was the case.

Because your profile age say 13, you will not get as much good advice as many people check the age of the member and post advice according to that.

Kiasu

Answer #6

I think they may be older than 13 captainassassin.

I dont think they wanted to enter their real birthdate and just put in the date that they joined plus 1996 which is the youngest possible year the system would accept.

The question certainly does not read as if it was written by someone who only a few days ago was still only 12 years old.

Kiasu

Answer #7

Its probably because YOU ARE ONLY THIRTEEN…

Your body hasn’t fully developed yet. You’ve got another 8-10 years of growing to do…

Answer #8

Some women don’t get pleasure from intercourse. It might be better for you if he was to bring you to orgasm orally, or manually before intercourse. You could also stimulate your clitoris while having sex so you aren’t feeling left out, plus most guys find seeing that a turnon.

Answer #9

he probably dont know how to work it right. try being on top or working with him

Answer #10

hes tooo little

Answer #11

your probley loose lol lk

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