I need advice and thx in advance to those who answer. Just turned 50, my boyfriend is living with me in my house and we have had sex 2 times in 8 years!!! I went thru cancer at 40 and it took away my sex drive as I went through extremely high doses of chemotherapy. Within the next 2 years, my sex drive came back. During those 2 years, he had sex with a drug addict which he kept secret and I have recently found out about. I had my breast removed and I never had reconstruction so I have gone all these years thinking he couldn't stand to look at me. Before the cancer, we had sex all the time and it was FANTASTIC! We talk about it and nothing has changed; seems he can't stay home long enough for us to work on it and gets frustrated if I talk to him about it. He is gone 7 days a week from 6am to 6pm and has been for years (not work related either) so all he wants to do is eat and sleep; we never spend time together; when he comes home he is too tired or he hurts. It is as though we are only friends. I love him dearly and we have seen each other on and off for 15 years but my life is extremely unfulfilling. I am scared of the thought of meeting someone else because I am scared of rejection. He seems to be conversing with my sister (who is single and we are NOT close) everyday as she always calls him when she needs something or a shoulder to cry on but yet he can never be here for or with me. I am considering getting a toy for now as I have never owned one. I want some type of life before I get too much older. Any suggestions?
Ouch. his behaviors would undermine the selfworth of any woman. especially since you have gone thru a masdecgtomy. Don't get the notion that you are not desireable and sexy ecause of it. Find the right man and he won't care how many or few titties you have. And as far as the vibrator is concerned I say go for it and run it in bed when he is there with you. If he bitches about the buzzing tell him to improve on it. he he. You deserve better. get it on girl, get it on. good luck Gino
Ouch. his behaviors would undermine the selfworth of any woman. especially since you have gone thru a masdecgtomy. Don't get the notion that you are not desireable and sexy ecause of it. Find the right man and he won't care how many or few titties you have. And as far as the vibrator is concerned I say go for it and run it in bed when he is there with you. If he bitches about the buzzing tell him to improve on it. he he. You deserve better. get it on girl, get it on. good luck Gino
I've got one. One night, after he falls asleep pull down his pants (if he uses them) and start giving him a h/j. And then put the head of his dick in your mouth while still stroking the staff and suck hard. Also, it could drive him through the roof if you put a mint in your mouth (not a strong one). If you use a strong one, it could make his dick feel like it's on fire so be careful! Hope i've helped.
are you looking for just sex or sex with a relationship? If it's just sex, I'd get a toy( try a fukuoku fingertip massager) if it's a friend with benifits you want then there's lots of dating services out there(on the net). It sounds to me like your're being used and you don't deserve that. Cheers:)
become a stripper, thatll restore the sex
