How can I tell him I'm not enjoying sex?

Think of that what and how would you enjoy, and try to fulfill it. If your b/f can help in this that is very good, if he cannot you have to find your own way. Do not waste your time.

Pretending will get you in loads of trouble.

You need to talk to him about sex. And NOT in the bedroom. Go somewhere that is public but where you are secluded.

Now my next question to you is: Do you masturbate?

If not, you should. It helps you to know what brings you to orgasm… then you can relay the message to him. Don’t expect him to figure it all out.

If he wants to be the best then he should be more than happy to try and help you figure out what turns you on and brings you to orgasm.

here is a very informative website that can help you. http://the-clitoris.com/n_html/masturb.htm

Never fake how you feel in bed becos it will become a routine and you will never enjoy it. Discuss it with your bf, if you dont wanna tell him he isnt doing the job then tell him in other ways. 1st you have to know what turns you on……start exploring yourself, masterbate and get to know your body and what works for you. Once you know you can let your bf know, so when your in bed, say to him..try this or do it like this and when you like something make sure he nos it by telling him how good it feels so he knows for next time what gets you going. You just need more practice thats all. But dont fake it becos it spoils it for you!

Hmmm…well, maybe he hasn’t tried different techniques. There’s bound to be something out there that can excite you. Why not try using a vibrator in front of him? He wouldn’t get all butt hurt if he can participate! But let me tell you…faking it is so BAD! Cuz guys go by how we express our feelings. So he may continue to do something that you really hate. Try reading it up online cuz you’re not the only one out there! :)