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How can I help my girlfriend be more comfortable with herself?

Whenever me and my girlfreind start getting intamate, things seem to be off to a good start. I try and arouse her with fourplay, and I finger her and I orally play with her breasts. But when I try and go down on her, 3 out of 5 times, she turns It down, and can’t explain why she just dosn’t want me to do it. When I do give her oral, she seems to like it, but I can tell that all the pleasure she gets out of it is blocking out her self-consciousness. She won’t let me see her naked, but she has seen me naked. She tells me that she really wants this problem worked out. She dosn’t know why she is like that, and mutiple times it has lead to her and I crying in eachothers arms. She and I are very much In love, and I want her to be completely comfertable with her nudity with me. What can I do?

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I really dont know why the first person even replies to anything because its not right.. im a girl and i have went through what your girl is going through now.. my boyfriend helped me by telling me how much he loved my body, every part he saw of it he told me it was perfect or how much he loved seeing me, or how wonderful everything about my body was.. it will take a while but once you tell her enough, and she starts believeing that you really do love her body, and your not jsut saying that she’ll open up,a nd be much more comfotable with her body around you..jsut give it time and work on it wiht her.. hope i helped..

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