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My girlfriend wants 2 get pregnant

im 14 1/2 and my girlfriend iz 13 1/2. (no racist but im black and she white). she says she loves me a hell ov a lot. it was juss last week on friday that she told me, she wants me 2 get pregnant. I dont no what 2 do. I love her and all, but im not ready 4 kidz. I told her that, and she started crying her eyes out and wouldnt stop till I said yes. she wouldnt talk 2me untill I said lets have kidz. she wants 2 meet me next friday and I dont no what 2do. so wha do you guyz think I shud do?

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Answer #1

DONT get her poregnant at 13 she is a child, and she cannot take care of a child and she does not know any of the responibilities required for taking care of a baby a baby costs on average %10,000 in the first year she has no job, no income and no way to support this child, feed it, or buy it neccessary things it needs to survive she propbably doesnt understand how painfull and scary childbirth can be at 13 its illegal for her to be having sex whatever you do, do not have sex with her because if you dont give her a kidm she will trick you into doing it she and you are not educated enough about sex anyway and its this lack of education that makes her think having a baby is like taking care of a doll well its not she needs help, tell her mother about this or take her to a doctor she needs some sense slapped into her because at her age, she knows nothing of babies and how to take care of them she also doesnt have anything to support a baby, so it would probably die in her “care” get her help, she needs an adault to tell her why its best to get educated about it first and wait untill shes older and if shes so hell-bent on getting pregnant, leave her if your not ready to be a afther and she doesnt respect that leave her, because the relationship isnt going to go anywere

Answer #2

don’t I am 18 and I have ine child and it is costing me a lot of money in child support

Answer #3

dont even think about it are you mad you will miss out on so much youll be stuck with a baby while your mates are out partying every night tell her no way find another mug live your live go out with loads of girls you have your whole life for children and babies are a lot of hard work and no sleep.

Answer #4

tell you her you want to wait until the time is right and that you arent ready for it and then ask her not to be mad or cry

Answer #5

wow well I dont think you should do it. Your way too young and even if you were older you shouldnt just do it because she wants to. Your gonna regret it big time

Answer #6

me 2 get pregnant. I thought you were a guy?? Lol. I take it that you mean, get her pregnant Lol, think about it, you two are only 13 and 14, doest matter about the halves. Not only is this illegal. It is irresponsible. You will soon regret this. Honestly, this better be a prank, because it’s outragous.

Shaunna.xx

Answer #7

Run like crazy! That isnt love! Putting stipulations to a relation is not good and you both are way too young! Want to spend the next 18 years raising a child and/or paying child support? You arent ready and no matter how much she begs and cries…DONT give in! Talk to your parents about what she is pressuring you into or her parents…talk to someone and also, you dont need a girl friend who pressures you into anything you are not wanting to do.

Answer #8

If you dont want to have kids than dont. Its not up to her if you want kids or not.

Answer #9

just say I dont want any and thats final

Answer #10

hope youre kidding you guys are way too young

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