My Friends Chatting Man is double or tripple her age

Well my best friend has been telling me lately that she has been chatting with a man twice or almost tripple her age, I find it very wrong I mean he’s just too old for her. She tells me she chats with him online almost everyday only and she actually likes the way he is she tells me that they have a lot of things in common so im guessing that’s what she might find appealing about him, She tells me that eventhough she knows he is very old for her she likes the fact that he is mature and doesnt act like a dumb high school guy, Well I just wanted to see if anyone could give me some advice on what to tell her, in my opinion I find it wrong but she just really likes talking to him, the other day I went to my friends house and well she was chatting with him and she told me to just look at the conversation so that I would see with my own eyes that he is a nice man, Well to tell you the truth their conversations are rather friendly and nice, nothing out the ordinary, and I could just see in her face that she actually looked happy to talk with him, Well just tell me what you think about my friends situation Comment or Funmail me Thanks for taking your time reading this

Answer #1

Adding to what the other advisers say, I’ve observed people chatting on Myspace chats a lot, and the regulars seem to be really good friends and just generally like to talk. These guys are from all walks of life and are all of different ages, from 15 - 45 year olds.

But anyway, since your friend let you read the conversation that day, try to get her to let you check in on her convos when you’re over… Try to look out for her. You’re doing good so far by posting here for advice :)

Answer #2

There isn’t much you can do to be honest. You can’t force her not to talk to him. But you can tell her the minute the conversation turns to anything sexual or about meeting up in real life to stop talking to him.

If you try to tell her to just stop talking to him now, she’ll just be angry at you and continue talking to him.

Answer #3

oh about the ages my friend is 18 and the man I think he’s 42 well he’s on his early forties. The only good thing here would be that they cant see each other since they live like so so far away from each other he lives in canada and she lives in tx.

Answer #4

How old is each person? Believe it or not the older you get the less the age gap matters. If she is in school/uni though there shouldn’t be a big age gap between the two - they older person should know that is weird. I agree there is little you can do - be there for her, tell her parents if it is getting out of control and don’t let her be with him alone if you can.

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