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My aunt is a user

I found that my aunt is a bit of a user and so are her kids. I got calls all the time from the kids needing rides and money but that isn’t the real problem the problem is that she has more money than I do and no real job and she doesn’t do for kids like I have, I get tired of the using, she nevers pays me back when I lend them money like she says, and she tells them to call me when they need help wth things she doesn’t want to do, My sister does’nt like her(my aunt) and has told be to stay away from them if they don’t make me feel good about myself and I wonder if she is right. What do you think? Do you think she’s a user???

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Answer #1

Sounds like it. If you ask me, the best way to solve a problem is to do the “ tough love “ action. Not just for your own good but for the kids too. I mean if you can get it to where no one lends her stuff, then she will ave to take care of herself and learn to do things by herself. It sounds harsh but it will get her off her user problem.

Answer #2

uuuh don’t be stupid…you obviously know the answer to this question, stay away from people who bring you down… sorry to be so blunt but it is what it is…Don’t expect her to pay you back whats that old saying? if you lend 100$ to a friend and you never see them again…it was probably worth the money… listen to your sister she seems to know what she;s talking about .if you have an infected limb what are you gonna do? let it slowly infect the rest of your body? or cut it off at the source?

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