So today I started what I thought was my period at about 9:30 am and I was haveing extreamly bad cramp and so I took to IB profen and I thought well that should help it usally does but this time it did not I thought it was kinda odd that it did not help. I got to school at about 12:00 noon and still nothing the Ib profen was not working at about 12:30 I went to the bathroom to change my femonine product and I sat on the toilet and I felt this slimmy thing fall out of me and I look in the toilet and it looks like a little sack with a fetus inside so I went to and called my mom and asker her if I was to have a misscarriage would this have happend and she said yeah and then I told her that I think that I had a misscarriage and then I went to get a second opinion from a women who deals with teen pregnancies she works in my school and she said that it does very much so sound like you had a misscarriage and I did not even know that I was pregnant and she told me that most misscarriages happen berfore a women even knows she is pregnant! Even though I did not know I was pregnant it is still hard for me to know that I had been pregnant and I dont know what to do I told my Feance` about it he his very upset as well! Have any of you been through this? If so can you tell me how to deal with it? I just dont know how to I just want to cry all the time and if you are going to say you did not even know so just forget about it then please dont leave your advice I need some lifting up not put downs!
I HAD A HEALTHY BABY AND HE HAD SERGURY AND DIED...COUPLE OF MONTHES LATER I GOT PREGNENT AND HAD AN INCOMPLETE MISCARRIAGE...AND 4 MONTHS AGO I GOT PREG AGAIN AND JUST HAD A MISCARRIAGE AGAIN. YEAH IT REALLY HURT ME WHEN MY BABY DIED. I WAS SAD WHEN I HAD MY 1ST MISCARRIAGE AND MY 2ND MC I WAS MAD. BUT IT TURNED OUT THAT I WAS HAVING THE MC'S B'CAUSE ME & MY HUSBAND HAVE DIFF BLOOD TYPES. IM SORRY...I HOPE U'LL B OK...
assuming that this was your first pregnancy... most women's first pregnancy result in a miscarriage before they realize they are pregnant. it is just unlucky that you realized it. don't worry its not like this was your last chance at a baby right so just try again (although I suggest that you "try again" when your fiance has become your husband)
I'm sorry...I've never been through that, but it must suck...big time. All you can do is try and move on...you can always try again. You are young, and you have plenty of time.
I'm sorry for you and your fiance's loss. I've never been through that and I can't imagine how terrible you both must feel. I hope you find comfort and support in each other.
