Dear jaes, No, of course it doesn't. Stop and think why some people are very happy and content in their lives even through turmoil and through the tough times. It's all about your attitude. You can't blame life for the way you see things. If you were to follow a person who is relatively happy most times and who has a good outlook on life you will see they have good coping skills. These skills are usually taught by role models. Unfortunately we see a lack of role models today...include parents as role models. So knowing that, if you don't have good coping skills there are ways to learn and achieve them. Start by seeing a counsellor at school...from there they can get you in the right direction. Most people see life as a pleasant challenge and enjoy it. But like draws like so if you are unable to cope with life you will draw these people to you. That is why learning coping skills is essential...you will draw people who also enjoy life and see it as a pleasant experience. Sue...good luck
purplefairy-jaes, You know what I am not lucky I am happy with my life I make myself happy with my life. I was abused for about 16 years of my life. I had a child young and raised her for 3 years alone. I dont have a good relationship with my mother unlike my 3 sisters do and my teen daughter is giving me hell at the moment. But you know what? Its my life and I have chosen not to sit around moping about it waiting for someone else to fix it for me because that doesnt happen. If I want to be pathetic and cry all day and think wo with me then im not going to have a very good life and neither are my kids. I think about the good things and not the negative. I also think about people who are worse of than me who dont even get clean drinking water let alone a nice bed and a meal. There are always others doing worse than us. So no im not lucky im happy in life I make myself happy in my life.
Provided you learn to accept the things you can do nothing about, such as death, life is awesome. Other than that, the only two things that can make your life suck are you and other people, and if you live your life responsibly with no regrets and don't do anything stupid in which the consequences make your life suck, the only thing left is other people. Don't put up with people who make your life suck.
I agree, I hate mine, people make fun of me 24/7 and my friends like to bug me, they call and call and CALL and wont stop, every time I answer I say I cant talk, pplluuss I ALWAYS have this weird feeling in my stomach! I don't know why! its sooo weird =[
add me pls and we can talk some more about things like this
Eh sumtimes I try to block everything that makes it horrible out so yea and it kinda does right now considering my boyfriend just moved to new york really sucks but like they say you have to go threw the pain to experiance joy
Life is life, no matter how tragic or uplifting. Sure there are ups, there are downs, but my main goal is just to get through it in one piece. Britz
Some of life sucks; some of it doesn't.
You can focus on the parts that suck or you can focus on the parts that don't.
The choice is yours.
u are still on I thought you left...I know it hurts me all the time when I am in skull I cry cause of it...
Well, for me, life is mostly great, even though I have my share of burdens, pains, and tragedies.
Your life is what you make it and how you face it - having faith in what you know to be true !!
that makes me so sad for you :(
and yes I have to go to bed 21 month old get up early ;)
u can somtimes make it what you want it to be if you get your way all the time...
Life is What It Is ... Not What You Want It To Be
(sad but true)
my life is ok most of the time (purplefairy17 thats so sad) :(
no, its just pretty boring, Nothing interesting ever happens
I have ups and downs like any person but I love my life.
yeah true but thats what makes life interesting
o then good night and have a good day 2marrow
u are lucky you luve your life I cant really
yes I do my dad just died on march 27
what happend to you ohsocrazy?
I do agree life sucks
yes it do'es!!!
that is true