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ok im a very jealous person would this hurt my relationship
Jealousy is sparked from insecurity. The first thing you need to do is open the lines of communication with your bgf. Explain that you love him but, because they are so important to you, you are feeling anxiety or insecurity about the relationship. Chances are your partner will reaffirm how much he or she loves you and you both can discuss the reasons why you are with each other. Admitting your fear of losing your partner will open up a door of communication that can actually bond the two of you closer together. \
After you have communicated your feelings with your partner, you will better understand the reasons why he has chosen you and be far less likely to second-guess his intentions. You will be reassured of the fact that he is in a relationship with you because he loves you, not because they are waiting for someone better to come along. You love your partner, and, your partner loves you. It’s that simple. When you stop wasting your time thinking of reasons why your bf will leave you, you can start to understand the many reasons why your relationship is stable and satisfying for the both of you. If you can admit that you are someone worth loving, you can focus on building and strengthening the love between you both.
Dear chunkybutt, Yes, jealousy will hurt and ultimately end a relationship. If he has not given you reason to be jealous then this is your problem and you need to deal with it. If has given you a reason to be jealous then this is your problem and you need to deal with it. As you can see no matter what level you are in control. If he cheats leave, if he doesn't he will if you continue to be accusing him all the time. He will leave. Get some help...perhaps a counsellor can walk you through ways of fighting off the green monster of jealousy. Sue...good luck
Jealousy may destroy real good relationships.
ohh! yes it can
